There's a very fine line between picking up a hint from something, and reading too much into something, isn't it? How are we supposed to know whether something done to us or something we see or hear is a cue for a reciprocation on your part? The problem is, if whatever 'sign' is interprated wrongly, it is bound to lead to misunderstandings. Thus, to avoid misunderstandings, people choose to play safe, and ignore, or deny simply to bide time to be 'really sure' before a move is made. But can anyone ever be 'really sure'? To me it's like walking through a maze. We are unsure of whether we should take a certain path and thus we make the worst decision ever: To stay that way. We choose to stand on the junction, pondering, deliberating, but in actual fact procrastinating. We are afraid that the decision we make is wrong so instead of considering the path to choose, we choose to stand there and hope for a certain help that would make it easier to choose, which would never come. After all, only we are in control of our own lives, right? So things never progress, life goes stagnant and who suffers? You yourself.
So here i am, in my own maze, facing my own junction. I know i need to move, but i am still unsure as to which way to move. But, if i am 'really sure', wouldn't that 'choice' not be a 'choice' anymore?
Vexed over the situation. Troubled by my the choice i need to make. Confused as to which to choose, and perplexed over how it all came down to this......
Day 0 : Road to IPPT Gold
11 years ago
0 comments:
Post a Comment